PBM Basaiawmoit
Na ka bynta kane jingialang iaphylliew jingmut jong ka Dorbar Pyllun ka Seng Kur, la buh lai tylli ki mat ban iathir, ia phylliew jingmut bad ka shong eh hangi lang baroh kumno ngin pynneh pynskhem ia ki bad pyntrei kam biang biang ia ki ha kane ka juk, lehse, ka bym da shim khia than ia kine ki nongrim ksiar nongrim rupa ka long kur bad ka jaidbynriew Khasi.
Shah ban pynkynmaw ba ka sdang shwa arngut, ka kynthei bad u shynrang ban thaw ia ka longiing longsem lyngba ka jinglong kmie long kpa bad na kane, sa mih ka longkur bad ynda la don katto katne ki longkur ki longkha, sa mih ka jaidbynriew. Kumta, haba ong ieit jaidbynriew, dei ban sdang na kaba ieit la ka jur ka jaid bad ki longshwa ki la iathuh bad hikai ba ka jaidbynriew jongngi ka dei kaba tip kur tip kha bad ngi dei ban long kumta
A. Ka shongkha shongman:
U Blei Trai Kynrad, Nongbuh Nongthaw, Nongpynman Nongpynlong, U la seng ia ka shongkha shongman haba U la thaw ia u briew bad ia ka briew – shynrang bad kynthei. Kumta, ka dei ban long kaba don burom bad kaban pynmih ia u soh ka jingkmen, ka jingsuk, ka jingialong kawei bad kaban lam sha ka jingjop ha ki jingialeh, ban pynpoi sha ka thong ha ka jingiaid lynti kum ka longing longsem.
Khnang ban poi sha kaba thmu, yn buh katto katne ki mat jong ka jingshisha.
1. Ka shongkha shongman kam dei ban long kaba iajan than – (a) shi kur? horkit hordang kaba mut ba ngi dei ban tip la ka kur, ka kpoh; (b) shi para-kha? horkit hordang. Lada shongkha shikur bad shi para –kha, ka long ka sang ka ma, kat kum ka jinghikai ki longshwa manshwa.
Kine kiei kiei, ki dawa ba ngin tip bad lah lyndet badno, ngi ia dei kur, khamtam, haba sdang ban khie samla bad ka khmat ka la shat shane bad shatai ban ialuh samla. Ia ki khun jong ki pa-san bad pakhynnah trai kata kiba shipara bad i pa, ngim dei ban peit da ka khmat ibha samla.
Lada ngi iuh roit ia kane ka jingbuh kyndon ki longshwa manshwa, kan lam sha ka jingjot ha kiba bun bynta, khamtam lah ban poi sha ka jingduh jait ruh namar ba lah ia poikha jan than eh (genetic disorder through genetic legacy)
2. Haba ibha samla iano iano, donkam eh ban iathuh ha i mei i pa bad i mei, i dei ban iathuh pat ha ki kni bad iawad lang la ka lait ne-em ia ka sang ka ma lada kine arngut ki samla, kin ia poikha. Ki kmie ki kpa, ki kni, ki kmie- nah kmie-san, kim dei ban khang ne pyntieng lada ym don ka sang ka ma lane ban kwah ban urlong ka jingrwai “U sim rynniaw bad ka soh lyngngem” namar kine ki arngut ki samla kin ngiom la ka niom, lada ym don ka sang ka ma. Mano pat ban bah khlieh lada mih ka jingsngewsih bad ki jingsniew hadien habud ?
3. Ka dei ka kam ki longkni ban leit sha iing ka kynthei/shynrang la kata ka iing ka kloi ban pdiang ia ka pyrsa/u pyrsa jong ki bad ia poi kha bad ka/u pyrsa/khun jong ki. Nangta, hap ia buh ia ka sngi teh ktien bad lada donkam buh kyndon iano iano – shynrang ne kynthei khnang ban ym mih ka jingleh bein leh khoh, ka jingkhwan spah bad kiwei bad haba baroh arliang mamla, ki la ia beit ia hun, donkam ka jingteh sai-lieh sai-saw ia baroh arngut ki samla, kata, ba ka khmat jong ki, kam phai shuh shane bad shatai, ba kin ym iakynduh khah khah shuh bad tang arngut kum ha ka por ialuh hynrei ki dei ban ri la ka jinglong sotti tad ynda poi ka sngi pynhiar synjat, ka sngi kyntiew kurim.
4. Ha ka jingiohi jongnga bad da kaba burom, wat haba ki shu ia shong kumto shi tnga khlem ka jingkyntiew kurim, donkam ki arliang kur kin iashem bad pynskhem ia kane ka jingiashong kum shi tnga ki arngut namar donkam ka jingpynbeit kaba shai kaba skhem ia ka jingialong kha longman haba kano kano ka jingiapoi kha ka ktah ia ar ki kur. Kam kut tang ha ki arngut.
Ha ka juh ka por, ka Supreme Court ha ka Rai ba la ai ha ka snem 2015, ka pynpaw ba dei ban ithuh ia ka jingiashong kum shi tnga wat la ka dei kata ka ‘live in relationship’ ka bym pat ne khlem da ia pynhiar synjat.
5. Ka shongkha shongman namarkata, ka long kaba da ithuh da ka riti ka dustur, da ka Ain jong ka Ri bad da ka jingngeit niam.
B. Ka kyrdan bad jingkitkhlieh ka khadduh:
Ki kynthei kiba ioh bynta na ka nongtymmen i Mei, i Mei-ieit, ki ju pynleit jingmut ne-em ba balei ka khadduh ka ioh kham bun na ka bhah nongtymmen, haba la kha ia ka sha kane ka pyrthei kham hadien bad kumta, kham khyndiat ba kan iohi ia ka sngi ia u bnai hynrei katba ha ka jingsam bynta pat, ka ioh khambun na ki hynmen kynthei.
1. Ki khun kynthei kiba sha khmat, la sngewthuh ba ki dei ki khun mih iing kum ki khun shynrang tangba ka don ka jingpher khyndiat ne shibun hapdeng ki khun mih iing; (a) ki khun shynrang ki mih lyngkhuid na la iing kmie ha ka sngi kyntiew kurim, ka sngi pynhiar synjat lane lada ioh ei ei ban rah ruh, kam dei ka bhah ba don hok ban dawa hynrei, ka long tang kum ka jingai sngewbha bam lynti ban lait na ka iap tyrsaw; (b) ki khun kynthei ki mih na iing kmie haba ki la poikha poiman bad ioh khun ioh kti ban seng na la u khiew ja, ban pynieng la u mawbyrsiew, la u tnum u tyndai ia kaban ieng ha la ki jong ki kjat.
Lada ki kmie ki kpa ki long kiba don ba em bad ki don ka khyndew ka shyiap, ki sam bynta lang ia ki khun kynthei kat kum ka jingdon spah don phew, don khyndew don shyiap jong ki sha ki khun kynthei ba la kha sha khmat bad kumta, ki ioh bai seng lane ki ioh jaka ban shna iing shna sem kat kum ka bor bad jingheh u saipan. Lada ki kmie ki kpa ki long kiba khlain ka kamai ka kajih, khambun, ki pynshna iing ia ki khun mih iing.
Ka khadduh pat, ka ioh ia ka iing ka sem jong i mei ryngkat bad kiwei ki jingdon jingem khambun na ki hynmen. Kane kam mut ba dei ka jingleh shiliang da kaba kham pynnoh sha ka khadduh hynrei la leh kumne kat kum ka riti ka dustur namar (a) ka iing khadduh ka dei ka iing jonglang jong ki hynmen ki khunruid ha kaba ka long ka iing iakynduh shipara ryngkat bad ki khunruid haba donkam bad da lei lei ruh em, ka khadduh kam lah ban khang ia ki hynmen bad ki khunruid jong ka ban rung
ban mih ha iing khadduh kaba long ka iing kur. Da lei lei, kam dei ka nongkynti jong ka shimet hynrei ka long ka iing nongtymmen ba la pynieng da ka umsyep ki mei lane da i mei-ieit meidot – ar-pateng lai-pateng shwa, la kan dei ka iing maw, ne iing trep ba ker da u sder bad tap tnum da u tyndai, kam pher;
(b) ka dei ka kamram bad jingkit khlieh jong ka khadduh ban ri ban sumar ia ka kmie u kpa ha ka jinglong tymmen jong ki bad kata ka jingri jingsumar ia ki, kam dei ban long kaba shu leh tangdep, ban leh bein leh khoh ia ki bad ban shim kabu na ka jinglong tymmen jong ki, kynthup ia ka spah ka phew, ka jingdon jingem ba la ioh pateng na ka kmie u kpa;
(k) lada jia ba ki hynmen shynrang ki hap mih noh na iing khun namar ka kurim ka la khlad bad bym shym ioh khun ioh kti na ka bad namar kano kano kawei pat ka daw, ka long ka kamram ka khadduh ban pdiang ia ki bad ai jaka sah ia ki;
d) lada jia ba khlad noh ka/ki hynmen kynthei, ka dei ka kamram jong ka khadduh ban shim ia ki khunruid kiba la kylla khun iap kmie ia kaban ri ban kdup ia ki kum la ki jong bad kat ba kot ka bor ka umsyiep, ban bsa ban pjah ban pynheh pynsan ia ki, ym ban pynlong shakri lane pynlong mraw ia ki.
Haba ka don kat kine ki jingkitkhlieh, ka dei hok ba ka khadduh kan kham ioh bynta na ka nong tymmen namar kane ka jingioh bynta ka long kum ka bai seng.
Ka jingkylli kaba mih ka long haba ioh bynta na ka nongtymmen sngewdei eh ba ka khadduh kan shim ia kine ki jingkitkhlieh hynrei lada ki kmie ki kpa ki long ki bym don ka spah ka phew, ka khyndew ka shyiap bad bym don ei ban ai kum ka nongtymmen, hato yn dang pyndeng shakuriaw ia ka khadduh haduh katne?
K. Ka kyrdan longkni:
Ki longshwa manshwa jongngi, ki la pynkhamti ha u shynrang ar ki jingkitkhlieh lane ki kam, kata, (1) u shynrang u dei u longkpa ha iing khun bad (2) u dei u longkni ha iing kur. Hangne, ngin shim tang ia ka jinglong kni.
Lehse, ym da donkam ban batai than halor ka kam longkni hynrei tang kum ka jingpynkynmaw, ngin ia peit ia ki katto katne ki jingshisha ha kaba iadei bad ka iing kur.
1. Ha iing kur, u shynrang, u don ka jingiadei kaba jan bha bad (a) ka kmie, kmie-san, kmie-nah, ki kni, (b) ki hynmen ki para kynthei, (k) ki hynmen ki para shynrang, (d) u/ki kynum kiba wan shongkha ha ka hynmen, ka para kynthei, (e) bad ki pyrsa kiba long ki khun jong ka hynmen, ka para bad, (g) ki kiaw ki kthaw jong ki hynmen ki para lyngba ki kyn-um jong ki.
2.U don ka jingkitkhlieh ia (a) ka bha ka miat, ka pang ka shitom, (b) ka jingpynbeit ryntih, ka sneng ka kraw, ka jingpyni nuksa ia ka jinglong jingim ba
don burom (k) ka jingai mynsiem bad jingpynshlur ia ka thong kaba ba bha ba ki pyrshang ban kynjoh, ia ka jingiaid lynti ki pyrsa, ka kmie & u kpa jong ki ha kane ka pyrthei ba dap da ka jing-eh, jingialeh, ki rai maw rai-dieng, ki shangkhawiah ka pyrthei, (k) kaba ki dei ban iaid ha ka lynti ka hok, ka jingtip akor ka jingtip burom, ka jingtip briew ka jingtip blei.
3. U don ruh ka jingkitkhlieh ban long u ksiang na ka bynta ka poi-kha poi-man haba ki pyrsa ki la kynjoh sha ka yrta shongkha bad la sdang ialuh samla khnang ba ka jingiapoikha jong ki kan long kaba shongkun, kaba khia thew kaba da ia tip kur tip kha, kaba iaid kat kum ka riti ka dustur bad ba kan long kaba neh kaba skhem.
Ka jingkylli ka long, “Haba mynta, ngim ia shong marjan shuh bad la krih shabar la ka rympei, ka shnong ka thaw bad la poi kylleng kylleng ka Bri ban ia shong ia sah, ia trei ia ktah bad wat shabar u pud ka Bri bad sha shiliang duriaw, tang lah mo ban pyntrei kam ia kine ki jingkitkhlieh ba la kdew sha khmat ?” To ia tih ia thai; to ia noh synniang lyngba ki symboh pyrkhat pyrdain halor kane ka phang bad lehse, kin long pynban ki symboh ksiar ki symboh rupa.
Shwa ban pynkut ia kane ka jingkren lamphrang, artatien ba ngi ju shim nuksa bha na ka jinglong ki nong Japan – ba ki stad bha bad kata ka science & technology ki Japan ka long kaba la pur kylleng ka pyrthei; ki long ruh kiba trei shitom bha kat haduh ba la ong ha ka ktien Phareng, “they rose from ashes” namar ka jingbret bomb ka Ri USA ia ka Hiroshima bad Nagasaki ha U Nailar, 1945. Hynrei ka jaidbynriew Japan pat, ka long kaba bat riti bat dustur bha. Haduh mynta mynne, haba bam ja ha iing, kim pyndonkam miej pyndonkam shuki; ki dang shong kyllain myngngor ha madan. Nga la shem ruh ia kane haba ngi la leit bam ja ha kawei ka dukan die ja ki Japan ha Bangkok, Thailand, ha ka snem 2002.
Ai ba ka jinglongkur kan neh
Wat hapdeng bun ki jingtynjuh bad jingialeh.
La ka riti ka dustur to bat, to burom;
Wat leh tynneng, wat niew dewthala lane leh dusmon.
Ki longshuwa ki la buh ia ki matti
Ban long ka jaidbynriew tip briew, tip blei,
Ka jaidbynriew tip kur tip kha bad tip riti
Khnang ban eh ka rngiew ka jinglong jaidbynriew Khasi.