Panbor B Lyngdoh
Ban kop sarong kyreit ia la ka jong, khlem da twad shwa ia ka Lyngkdong; ba ngi dei kita kiba tip Kur tip Kha (ngi sngew ba tang ma ngi kiba tip lut, kylleng ka pyrthei, kim tip ei-ei biej-kale) khamtam da ki khun Kpa khyllahjait kiba la jyllei hapoh ka imlang sahlang, ban peit la ishyrkhei; hynrei kaba sngewlehrain ka long ba kine kijuh kiba la ioh ia ka longrynieng na ka Meikha Khyllahjait lyngba ki khun shynrang jong ka, kim ju leit wad sha Tibet-Bhutan-Nepal-China-Africa-Saheb-Sri Lanka, Dkhar kylleng ka Ri India bad para-Riewlum, namar ki sngewlehrain sarong ba don ka Meiieid ha ka jingshisha, kim don bynta ei-ei shuh bad ka Meiieid, ki shu ia dei tang na kajuh jait kur kynthei. Wat la katta ruh sngewjahburom-pohburom phi ba ka Meiieid ka don khunksiew ia kitei haneng. ialade nga pyndonkam ia ka Jait jong ka Kur kynthei, mynta ba nga la tymmen nga la iohi lut ia ka jingjot-jingpei kaba la pynduh-pyndam (massacred) ia ka jinglong banylla (purity) jong kane ka jait kur kynthei haduh ban syrdep la long lehnohei, kumta ialade nga la sngewpohjait-burom noh ha khmat jong ki Jait Kpa jong ka pyrthei salonsar. Wat napdeng jong ngi ki khun Kpa khynriam-Pnar-Bhoi-War bad Lyngngam Khasi, katno ngut eh, kiba leit wad Meikha? Duna bha, namar ngim sngewthuh ia ka jingmut Meikha. Ma nga ialade te; ym don ba don shuh, sa tang ki khun kynthei/shynrang bad ki khun-Ksiew jong nga ba na baroh 2 liang kynthei/shynrang, nga im suk im sain bad ki.
Namarkata, ngi donkam ban sngewthuh bha da kaba shai kdar (Crystal clear) ba ka MEIKHA ka don bynta kaba khraw ha ka jingai ia ka Longrynieng jong ki khun-kha, lyngba u/ki khun shynrang jong ka bad ka don HOK ban kam nongkynti ia ki khun-kha 99.9%, kaba mut (by blood). Nga la iohi kiba bun ki Meikha kiba ri sumar, pynnang-pynstad ia la ki jong ki khun-kha, namar ka don ka jingiadei kaba jan bha hapdeng jong ki (by blood); don napdeng ki khun-kha kiba iasyriem Dur bad la ka jong ka kmie-kha, Pasan-Parit-Padeng-Paduh nangta don kiba pyndonkam noh ia ka Jait jong ka kmie-Kha, ki ia im suk-sain haduh mynta. Kim shym la sheptieng ia kata ka jingpynsngewthuh bakla jong nga/phi, ba tieng ialade hana; kam bit ban pyndonkam ia ka Jait jong ka Kmie-kha. Na ei kein kam bit? Balei kein kam bit? Mano ba hukum ba kam bit? Haba ia ka longrynieng ki la ioh na u/ki khun shynrang jong ka Meikha! Hato don jingthoh ban pynshisha shaphang kane? Haba ia ka research shahang jong ngi, dang shu sdang ha u 1700 century shaneng da ki Paduh Saheb.
Ba ngin shu ia pynsheptieng bakla jubor, khlem da tip thikna halor kino, kumno bad nangno ki nongrim ngi ieng? Ym bit ho, tang kawei ka jingeh ba bun balang na ngi ki shynrang Khynriam-Pnar-Bhoi-War & Lyngngam, ngi la shu hun noh ha ka jinglong Mraw na iing ka Kmie sha iingmane bad sha iing ka Menkmie/Kiaw. Ka leit jia kumne dei ba ngim ju don authority, identity, destiny bad security (um don Bor bad um don ei-ei, he has no voice and owns nothing), thoh ka kot ATLAST OF MAN naduh ki 1980s.
Da kaba burom, ka MEIIEID pat de bad ki ksiew jong ka, ha ka jingshisha ki shu iadei tang na kajuh ka jait kur kynthei (woman’s claim title same), ym don jingiadei ei-ei shuh na ka liang jong ka Longdoh-longsnam (by blood) namar kam shym don bynta ei-ei ha ka jingai ia ka longrynieng jong ki, lada ngi pynshong nongrim bha, ka don ka jingiapher hapdeng ka Bneng bad ka khyndew (vast different). Te; kumta kam don HOK shuh ban kam nongkynti 01.99% ia ki khun ksiew. Kaei ka daw ba kam don HOK shuh? dei namar ba ki mih na ki symbai Kpa bapher bapher jong ka Kylleng ka pyrthei (la pohjait don akor-burom) haduh mynta dang thnem bad iaid iew bha, te; na kane ka daw ka MEIIEID ka kylla long noh; tang kum ka nonglum-nonglang ia ki khun ksiew Nepal-Bhutan-Tibet-Africa-Saheb-China-Sri Lanka, Dkhar kylleng ka Ri India bad para-Riewlum. Ym dei ba nga niew bein ia ka Meiieid, hynrei pynpaw ia ka jingshisha, haduh mynta ngi dang len-buhrieh khlem jinglehrain ia ka jingjot-jingpei ka Kur Kynthei.
Tang kawei ka jingeh ba ngi ia tyngkhuh ha ka imlang sahlang jong ngi ki Khasi Khynriam-Pnar-Bhoi-War bad Lyngngam, lehse ki khun kim banse ban pynpaw jingieid arsap ia la u jong u kpa uba ieng marwei (alone), namar ngim pat long trai halor jong ki, ngi dang dei tang ki Nongbet Symbai lane ki Chowkidar; te; kumta kham jur noh ka jingieid shaba palat ia ka kmie (kajuh ka jait kur kynthei, tylli kawei (United). Hooid, ngi dei ban ieid ia la ka jong ka kmie, kylleng ka pyrthei ki ieid ia ka, tangba don ka limit. Haba nga peit isynei shisha ia ki khun shynrang kiba ju mlien ban khnap kmie, ki klet noh ba ynda kumno kumno ruh ha kawei ka sngi, kin sa shah pynmih lyngkhuid noh na iing (Dustur jot Kur kynthei) kum ma nga! khnang ban pynkhreh jaka ia ka jingwan u Kynum/Pyrsa Kurim Poiei, ynda dei lei-lei u khyllahjait la shongshit ka iing ka sem hana; ba un kylla Khristan noh. Ha kane ka por ka kmie kam don shuh kata ka jingieid bad kynmaw khun shynrang shuh, namar ki la dei noh jong kiwei, la wan mih bujli noh da ki Poiei. Tang shu kham shong samla slem ki khun shynrang ha iing, ki la leh-khia-thew, namar la pynwit noh ia ka jingwan ki pyrsa kurim/Kynum Poiei.
To phi ki Kur Kynthei sngewbha pynsngewrit ialade kumba long ki Riewkynthei jong ka INTERNATIONAL WOMEN LIBERATION MOVEMENT kiba sngewthuh ia ka jinglong Riewkynthei bad kiba la ioh ruh ia ka jingiaryngkat kyrdan bad ki RANGBAH bad kim ju buh jingkylli hangamei ia ki Rangbah lajong; balei ba u ioh da ka khyllahjait bad kumta ter ter …… to sngewbha wat bishar ia ngi ki shynrang, bishar shwa ia ka jingleh khlemakor lajong. sngewbha wat phah tang Jait Thymmai ia ngi ki shynrang da kaba niewbein kum ki 3rd class citizen hapoh ka Kur kynthei, ha ka jingshisha ym don kam ban tang jait, namar u symbai dei jong u; dei ban phah ia kito ki Paduh-Khyllahjait kein ban tang jait namar ki dei ki 3rd class citizen hapoh ka Kur kynthei, hynrei 1st class top citizen hapoh ka jait Kpa jong ki, kiba don ia ka bor/iktiar 12 Bor. Ym dei kum ma ngi Rangbah-rengmattah tang ha ka nam, ngim ler ha ki kam (in name only, in action nil) hero-zero; haba ia nujor bad ki Paduh Khyllahjait. Namarkata; ngim don HOK ban buh-shun da kaba kdew kti tang ia ki briew jong u SYNGKHONG RYMPEI THYMMAI, katba ia ki Kur Kynthei baphe bapher ba ioh tnga Khyllahjait khlem jinglehrain na kylleng ka pyrthei; ngim shlan ban ang, To tip ba ki briew jong u SRT.. ki kam nongkynti ia la ka jong ka HOK kum ki Kpa jong ki khun, namar kumba ka long mynta ngi dang dei tang ki Nongbet Symbai lane Chowkidar; ngim pat long trai.
Namarkata; ko phi ki Kur kynthei to ia poikha-poiman kat ia uba phi ia jied mon sngewbha, kumba ba dang thnem Iew haduh mynta; ym don ba lah ban khang, namar la lyngkrang lypa naduh u snem 1765 shaneng ha ki por jong u Major David Scott bad laitluid naduh ki 1945 shaneng ha ki por ba ki shipai USA bad BRITISH ba la wan shong thait-pyngngad shipor hapoh sor shillong. Tangba sngewbha wat leit pynthohbria ia ka Jait lajong; kumba long mynta ym lah shuh ban pdiang, namar shiteng na ki Kur kynthei bapher bapher la kharoi ki khun Kpa khyllahjait. Kiba shu iaroh matlah ia ki kur kynthei. Tip kan poi shaei? Hooid; ha ka liang ka shongkha-shongman International mix-marriages ka ju don, ngim lah ban khang ia ka kynthei, hynrei haba ka la jied mon sngewbha ka hap ban leit bud ia la u tnga (husband) lane u Lok (companion) kumba shait ong ma ngi. Balei mo ngi shait pyndonkam ia ka ktien TNGA, dei namar na ka liang ka Jait Kur Kynthei ngim lah satia ban pyndonkam ia ka ktien TNGA, ia kane ka kajuh lah tang na ka liang Jait Kur Kpa jong kylleng ka pyrthei. Te; lada jia ba ngi shong-sah hapoh shnong jong ka, ym don problem tangba ka Jait ka khong dei ka jong U. Ym dei kum hangne hapoh Ri Lum jong ngi. Ki Kur Kynthei ki wan kit kat ia uba ki la jied mon sngewbha bad pynkylla Khasei-Khasoi jubor lyngba ka jait Kur kynthei. Kane kajuh ka ia ktah jur bha ia ka burom-akor bad jingkordor jong ka jaitbynriew. Teng teng nga shait bamja khleh-Tungtap ka bang bha. Hynrei bad ka Jaidbynriew ka BIH bha ho.
Te; kumta; ha ka imlang sahlang Khasei-Khasoi ka dei shisha kumne. Haba synshar ka Kynthei i Wahduid i tuid sha jrong Lum, “Where a woman rules, a stream goes uphill”. Ethopian Proverb. Ka Inner Line Permit kam lah satia ban trei kam, katba dang don ka International Love Permit.
Phi don ban ong eiei?